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Harassment unpunished

Muna Al-Fuzai In the first week of January, Kuwait Times published an important report about harassment in Kuwait. I would first like to thank my colleague Ben Garcia for addressing such a sensitive topic. I read the whole report and felt that there are some points that I need to address today and add my…

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Muna Al-Fuzai

In the first week of January, Kuwait Times published an important report about harassment in Kuwait. I would first like to thank my colleague Ben Garcia for addressing such a sensitive topic. I read the whole report and felt that there are some points that I need to address today and add my view on the subject as a woman and a Kuwaiti citizen.

I believe that the issue of harassment is kept under silence or not spoken about publicly due to the fact that usually the victim – who is most often a woman or a child – feels ashamed, scared and shocked about what happened to them. So they tend to avoid talking about it and think it will never happen to them again or no one would believe them, especially in the case of rape, and if the rapist is a relative or someone they know from school or work.

According to Ahmed Al-Mutairi, a Kuwaiti lawyer, “rape or sexual harassment cases are mostly unreported, and reported cases don’t actually reach to the level of courts because victims consider it shameful or an attack to their dignity/honor.” I personally feel that not reporting these crimes is more harmful than reporting them. I believe that not talking about the crime will not hide it and it might happen again, leading the victim to be harmed more, while the rapist will be free to commit the same crime with a new victim, if not the same. The damage will fall on the victim only.

Another issue here is the lack of support by the civil society – we don’t have support groups like the West to help those who are abused or raped, for example, to move on with their lives and regain people’s trust by not allowing one crazy person or a bad incident to damage their lives. Also, I think the problem in cases of sexual harassment and rape is that the victim is always made to feel that they motivated and provoked the criminal to attack them. A lack of sympathy and understanding is shown. If the victim is a woman, she may be accused of not being conservative in her clothes, and in case the victim is a child, parents are blamed for not paying enough attention to their kid, because of which they were attacked by a maniac. Eventually, everyone gets blamed, but no one utters a word against the rapist, except that he was offered the right situation! This is unfair and completely unjust, but this is the reality.About the right situation, let us suppose a woman is raped by a relative, like a brother or father or family friend, whom she trusts; of course she will not be covered in black while dealing with them. Naturally, she will have confidence in her blood relatives. He will only choose the right moment when the woman is alone to attack her. I can’t understand how and why she must take the blame! If the victim is a child, then I assume a child normally has full trust in his family circle and the places they may go to daily, like a supermarket and school for example. So there is no way they can encourage a sex manic to attack them.

Parents usually get enraged when they hear that their child has been raped, and barrage the child with questions about all the details as if they are the guilty one. They don’t seek help from specialists like psychologists, and questions by the police can add to the pressure. So I understand the child’s reaction to not say a word, especially if they are threatened with harm if they say anything to their parents. In the end, only the child will be harmed all their life.

I know that going to court will not be the end to all sex maniacs around the world, but stopping a criminal will mean that his crime will not go unpunished, and he will not be allowed to do it again or against a new person. It also sends a warning that society will not accept such crimes. The case sometimes takes years for a final court verdict. This may seem a long time for the victim, but saying nothing or accepting financial compensation will most likely mean that the rapist will be free and no one is safe. I refuse any kind of monetary compensation because the harm is already done and no money in the world will make the victim become normal like before.

By Muna [email protected]

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He explained that military operations continued on all fronts, with the southern front seeing most of the action. He also noted the Saudi-led Arab coalition’s support with airstrikes. 

“Marib is not besieged, and the Houthis are far from achieving this,” he said. 

He added that most of those fighting for the Houthis were children and young men. 

“They do not care about the children of Yemenis who are killed by the dozens every day,” he said, referring to the Houthi militia. 

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CHICAGO: Nine members of Congress who have been vocal critics of Israel’s policies towards the Palestinians could face tougher re-election campaigns as a result of their districts being redrawn, an analysis by Arab News shows. Every 10 years, the dominant political parties in many states re-draw district boundaries based on demographic data provided by the…

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CHICAGO: Nine members of Congress who have been vocal critics of Israel’s policies towards the Palestinians could face tougher re-election campaigns as a result of their districts being redrawn, an analysis by Arab News shows.

Every 10 years, the dominant political parties in many states re-draw district boundaries based on demographic data provided by the US Census, which does not count Arab and Muslim Americans as a separate category.

Where population shifts have led to proposed boundary changes, incumbents may be forced to stand in new districts. That’s the challenge facing Illinois representative Marie Newman, who won election in 2020 in the 3rd Congressional District, which has the largest concentration of Palestinian American voters.

Newman has chosen to face-off with Sean Casten, who is very strong on climate change, in the new 6th District rather than stand against Jesus “Chuy” Garcia, who is one of only two Hispanic congress members in Illinois, in the 4th District. Casten is a strong supporter of Israel and silent on Israeli violence against Palestinians, while Garcia has often joined Newman to support pro-Palestinian legislation, including voting against a bill giving Israel $1 billion for its Iron Dome defense system last September.

“Rep. Newman was supportive of the push to create a second congressional district of Latino influence and understood that doing so would mean the need to shift boundary lines of existing CDs in the Chicagoland area,” Newman campaign spokesperson Ben Hardin said.

Describing the challenges as “inevitable,” Hardin said: “Representative Newman is grateful … to have the support of so many people here in Chicago’s southwest side and in the south and west suburbs, including a strong coalition of supporters from the Arab and Muslim American community.”

The new Illinois district map was approved by Illinois Gov. J.B. Pritzker, one of Israel’s strongest advocates, in November. Pritzker aroused anger among Arab Americans after refusing to apologize for disparaging remarks he made in a 1998 congressional race in which he accused a rival of accepting money from a Muslim group that Pritzker asserted supported terrorists.

“There is no doubt that the Illinois Democrats are seeking to undermine Newman, who has been a vocal supporter of Palestinian, Arab and Muslim rights,” said Hassan Nijem, the president of the American Arab Chamber of Commerce.

“She and Chuy Garcia are the only Illinois Democrats to defend Palestinian rights and recognize our growing community.”

The Illinois primary has been delayed from March until June 28, 2022, because of the COVID-19 pandemic.

In addition to Newman and Garcia, seven other members of Congress who voted against the Iron Dome money could be affected by district changes.

They include Cori Bush of Missouri; André Carson of Indiana; Raúl Grijalva of Arizona; Ilhan Omar of Minnesota; Ayanna Pressley of Massachusetts; Rashida Tlaib of Michigan; and Thomas Massie of Kentucky, a Republican Congressman who consistently votes against all foreign aid regardless of the recipient.

Tlaib, Pressley and Omar are members of the “Squad,” a group of progressive Democrats that includes New York Congresswoman Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez. Instead of voting against the Iron Dome funding, however, AOC voted “present” not taking a position.

In Michigan, which is holding its primary on Aug. 2 next year, mapmakers are proposing to re-draw Tlaib’s 13th district, increasing the number of African American voters. That could be important even though Tlaib defeated several African American candidates when she first ran and won office in the predominantly African American district in 2018.

Tlaib may be forced into a new district against pro-Arab Democrat Debbie Dingell. However, she could survive as the Michigan process puts remapping in the hands of an independent commission rather than partisan politicians. The final Michigan remap might not be completed until late January.

Also in Michigan, proposed changes would pit Jewish Democratic Congressman Andy Levin, who has been an outspoken supporter of the two-state solution for Palestine and Israel, against Brenda Lawrence.

Minnesota congressional remapping plans have targeted Omar and another pro-Palestinian Congresswoman, Betty McCollum, although maps in those districts have not been finalized.

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